I read a blog, where an anynomous shot a question to the Ustaz. He (or she), was so shy because he has tanda kat dahi. Malu-malu lah, macam tanda org alim. Takut ader perasaan riak. Ye lah, in the Al-Quran says, org rajin sujud ada tanda di dahi, something like that.

Ermm...a point to ponder. Yes, it is true. Tapi kan, why we limit our interpretation to a very surface matter. I dont have any agenda saying this, but cant you see, Saiful Bukhari (kes liwat Anwar ) pun bertanda dahi dia, laki Isma AF7 si Zul tu bertanda juga. I am maybe alone disagreeing to this matter. But who cares, this is my opinion, and this is my blog, anyway.



In my life, I have seen 3 friends who has this sign. Bukan tanda hitam kat dahi, but it' s like cahaya, very unexplained, yang memang nampak kat dahi diorang. I bet other people also can see these. Who are they? Two of them are on my facebook. The other one, I dont know where is she now.


To me, that's the sign is nur, not tanda-tanda hitam ni lah. Ada lecturer uni aku dulu, berjanggut dan hitam dahi, tapi ada scandal sex ngan student perempuan gak. It's a true story.That student is happened to be my friend.
 
This is my writing, which is based on my observation and experiences. Ia hanyalah lontaran pendapat, yang pasti memerlukan cerdik pandai Islam yang memperbetulkannya. I am open.
 
This entry bukan bertujuan untuk menyelar sesiapa, tetapi lebih kepada untuk membuang benda-benda yg questionable, yang membelenggu masyarakat Islam hari ini.

Salam..

Salam for you. Dah lama tak menjenguk blog ni, almaklum dah bekerja semula. Setiap hari, seawal 6.30 pagi meredah Jalan Kuching dan Jalan Sultan Ismail. Kalau masuk pukul 7am, boleh balik pukul 4pm. Biasanya, pukul 4.30 pm la aku melompat tutup screen, bekejar ke car park. Selalunya, tengahari, aku akan spend masa sikit untuk membeli donuts kat Pavillion. Hehe, biasa la naluri ibu bekerja...mesti nak beli something untuk budak-budak.

Some people questioned me, dah elok2 duduk umah, makan pakai tanggung, nak jugak kerja semula. Saya faham kenapa soalan itu ditanya. Tapi saya pun tak tahu macam mana nak jawab. Kadang2, saya membaca blog surirumah yg lain, mereka sanggup berhenti kerja untuk kemaslahatan rumahtangga dan anak-anak. Tahniah saya ucapkan kepada mereka, semoga setiap detik yg pengorbanan ikhlas itu mendapat pahala.

Saya bertanya kepada suami, apa cita-citanya. Dia kata, by age of 35, nak ada 1 millions cash, duduk rumah tak yah kerja, buat kolam ikan dan jual ikan, tapi biar org lain yg uruskan. Okaylah tu. Aku pun bertanya pendapatnya, mana yg lagi OK untuk aku, nak jadi Rotating Specialist ke, Reliability Specialist ke? Suami macam tak berminat nak menjawab. Dia kata, kita ni kerja sebab cari duit, bukannya kerja sebab nak kerja!

O-o, then I answered. Kalau nak kaya, ada jugak orang jual nasi beriyani pun boleh dapat rm4k sehari. Ada yang jual keropok lekor kat Tganu, dapat RM1k sehari....oh thats not me! To me, Allah jadikan manusia bermacam-macam gaya berfikir, bermacam idea dan kehendak. Kalaulah semua manusia ni semua otaknya sama, maka takde lah engineer, takde lah orang nak jadi doktor, takde lah orang yang nak jual tasbih, takdelah kedai Nasi Ayam Linda Onn! Berbalik kepada cerita penjual tasbih, mungkin dia tahu dia takkan kaya dengan menjual tasbih, tapi itulah yang dia mahu.

Penulis: Teringat cerita Cinta Si Penggali Kubur.

Sakit Hati Den

Kalau tengah terasa sakit ati, boleh pilih utk cool ,or teruskan sakit hati & lancar perang sedara:

Cara-cara untuk cool:
1. Bila terasa tu, beredar dari situ. Gi minum air.
2. Cepat pikir, ah..dia baru kena cerai talak tiga kot...sbb tu camtu meroyan...
3. Pastu ingat semua benda baik yg dia pernah buat kat kita.
4. Niat dalam hati, maafkan dia. Dan semoga Tuhan maafkan dosa kita pulak.
5. Besok tu buat biasa. Tapi kalau org tu memang jahat dan kacau lagi...jgn lupa baca doa pendinding, ya.

Cara-cara untuk teruskan sakit ati (hehe):
1. Bila terasa tu, cepat-cepat diam. Bukak facebook, pastu buat status Lepas Geram, biar satu alam tahu.
2. To amplify further, pikirkan semua silap dia pernah buat dulu. Yg takde kaitan pun boleh jugak.
3. Pastu pikir yg ko pernah tolong dia dulu. Then, sumpah seranah la dia... nak ngumpat boleh gak.
4. Last but not least, tanya diri sendiri, apa yg kita dapat pun....lagi tak tenteram jiwa ada la manyak-manyak musuh ni..

Yg menulis,
Aku yg sedang sakit ati....hehhe...dadidudada..

Ada Aku Kisah? Mesti la Aku Kisah...

Terjumpa petua ini, cak,cak,cak?
Wajah anda kelihatan tua dan kurang menarik?

Untuk awet muda dan menarik :
1.Banyakkan ketenangan dengan berzikir dan mengingati Allah.
2.Minum segelas air suam setiap pagi, sebaik sahaja bangun tidur
3.Makan sehelai daun pegaga segar setiap hari selama 40 hari.

Tell me when can I get daun pegaga kat sini. Wargh....!!!

My Jersey

Was so excited that NS won the Bola Cup 2009 yesterday. Facebook status revealed hate, anger, excitement, etc. I, although not a football fan, also celebrated the joy, of course virtually.It has been reported in many blogs that the supporters burnt out the stadium seat, throwing hard objects, etc. Ironically, I am not annoyed. Because, anyway, my Kelantanese husband ni lah yang bancuhkan madu + limau, sediakan ubat and all ( I got bad throat infection last night). And he woke up in the middle of night curious whether I was OK or not.

Don't you agree, when we wear labels, life is difficult. Hatred begins when you put on your jerseys, say, I am anak Nogori, I am Kelantanese, I am puak Tamil Nilam, whatsoever. I just wonder, how much race, nationality has torn us apart.

A point to ponder, Singapore government has successfully disintegrated Malay in Spore, by enforcing i.e Malay Jawa, Malay Minangkabau, to be indicated in their ID card. The impact of a label is very destructive. Why dont you see that. 

And if you happen to run politics or big organization, always remember this Jersey story. Anyway, I admire Lee Kuan Yew.

Dalam Ribuan Biji Epal, Ada Beberapa Benih Saja Yang Tumbuh

Sepanjang saya beriktistikharah, tak pernah saya dapat mimpi, atau apa-apa alamat yg special. Saya lebih mengikut gerak hati yg cenderung ke arah mana. Buat berkali-kali dan tawakal. Untuk memilih sekolah anak begitu juga. Semasa hendak membuat keputusan, teramatlah sukar dan tiada rasional. Dengan kerisauan tiada transportation, yuran yg terlalu mahal dan sebagainya. Tetapi akhirnya selamat.

Ada seorang bekas rakan sepejabat perempuan, melalui chatting, dia berkata, `Awak selalu bernasib baik. Awak dapat tawaran kerja yang bagus. Awak amik exam, awak lulus. Awak ikut saja, akhirnya pilihan awak tu tidak mengecewakan'. Ya, saya tahu, dia merujuk kepada pekerjaan saya sebelum ini. Tetapi sekarang saya tidak lagi bekerja, dan sedang mencari pekerjaan juga.

Betulkah saya selalu bernasib baik? Tetapi ramai yang tidak tahu, saya menghantar surat permohonan beratus-ratus melalui email, juga menghadiri pelbagai temuduga yang menyedihkan. Adakah saya mahu menceritakan macam mana kesedihan `dihambat' semasa temuduga? Atau kepenatan saya beratur di tengah musim panas sejauh 2 km dari pintu hotel tempat walk-in interview tetapi hanya di interview selama 5 minit sahaja dan diperbodoh-bodoh oleh expat India?

Guys, Allah mengatakan yang Dia Maha Adil. Sememangnya adil. Itu saja yang ingin saya katakan. Fooh, ini lah bebelan saya kali ini..menulis dalam keadaan penat berjumpa recruitment agency di tingkat 7 bangunan yang dikelilingi construction. Yang mana interviewer nya langsung tidak memandang saya, sebaliknya menatap komputernya sahaja. Kali ini, teksi membayar AED130 (RM130).

Saya tidak kecewa. Kerana selagi kita bernama manusia, kita kena terus berusaha!

Weapon

1. Org Melayu guna keris. Pendek.

2. Org cina guna pedang or kayu panjang. Senang nak libas dulu. So itu sudah kalah Melayu satu point, sbb keris pendek.

3. Tapi cina lawan mat salleh, mat salleh menang sebab pakai pistol. Belum sempat libas, sudah kena itew peluru..

Gunakan analogi di atas untuk berjaya. Good luck.

Silk Dubai (Washable)

Sinusoidal

If I were to plot my enthutiasme at the sinusoidal curve, mine now is at the low ebb. Tak semangat siott nak buat apa pun. I am now in danger zone, of which I start to feel so comfortable and lazy to do things. Three Malaysia companies emailed on fixing interview date, but I am so lazy about it. Ah, heck. Pastu biler tahu ada vacancy lain, sibuk-sibuk pulak nak tahu. Hisy, what I am up to?

This sinusoidal mood is actually a killer of success. Really it is. A person with strong determination, persistant, will get his way. At this age, suddenly I don't know what I want.

Blogging is a Monologue, Not Dialogue

Chatted with an old friend. He pointed out about frustration of not selected to witness overseas FAT. As usual, that well-known lousy boss appointed himself to go, without thinking to develop people down the chart. Those who don't know what FAT is...it is Factory Acceptance Test. Normally people are dying to go...to Australia, Japan, not forget, Mumbai also in the list. Mumbai pun Mumbai lah...asal dpt gi jalan. Come on, guyz..Air Asia, Malaysia Airline tickets  now are truely heaven. Prices slashed down to cheap dirt price. So, don't cry. Aha, one thing, if u want something, go get urself. Grow up, don't wait others, for example your lousy boss, to think of you. They never. They never, never,never.

Last night we had a superb makan-makan. This place serves grilled food outside, like Maple (Makan Place) Bangsar. That actually attracted me. Arabic, Chinese, Indian cuisines are in the menu. Superb. Anyway, I must try some Asam Pedas when back to Kuala Lumpur next month.

Are We in The Same Boat?

Kupinjam bait2 yang pernah singgah di hati 14 tahun yg lalu:

Ke mana bintang beribu. Di malam ini. Tiada satupun yg kelihatan, kecuali kelam. Mungkinkah hujan kan turun, menemani malam. Makin sepilah, malam ku ini. Tiada teman bicara. Walaupun lenaku panjang, tiada mimpi bertandang. Menghitung hari berlalu, siksanya aku.

Ini lirik lagu Ukays laa...lagu Siksa, sebelum diubah oleh Kak Pah. In life, I seldom meet a girl who sings my songs...I presume, gals normally don't listen to this kind of song. Selalunya yang menjiwang camni budak lelaki. I am not crazy, I am just not you.

McDonald is Halal in Dubai

Tadaa...! A maniac Monday.. My daughter was late in the morning, that the father angrily left us behind... After packing her some cakes in the lunchbox, we rushed downstairs and found the father still there waiting...Omigod...it was just 6.50 a.m..

Man is man..! My B plan was to send her to school by cab, anyway, if he wasn't there... but of course I know he will wait somehow. So my little son and I unplannedly got into the car as well, and 1 hour later, found ourselves at the McDonald having Big Breakfast...Yeehaa...! Earlier the father asked me, `Where u want to go at this hour?'. I replied monotonously,`Just drop me anywhere, I am a survivor...there are feeder buses, Dubai Metro, bla bla...'.This was really amused me. I like the feeling. Huhu, I don't know that I can enjoy the morning outside. How come all this while, I just let myself trapped in the four-walls room? There are a lot of things that I can venture..Ah, looks like I will be doing this on frequent basis! Was having a good time reading news, while my little boy was munching his biscuits. You know what, just next to the McDonald, there is Dubai Public Library..wow..and a children e-library as well....! A modern library, equipped with e-facilities, technology books...yet no visitors at all!That's Dubai. They buy the technologies, and that's it. People in here is still crawling on how to switch on i-phone. I took home the membership form. If nobody does, let me make use of those luxuries.hehhee...

7 Wonders of The Day

1. I was reading newsfeed in a friend's Facebook... ada yg menulis `keluarga ni baik sangat (kawan diorang lah), bagus buat kawan dunia akhirat'. That attracted me, `KAWAN DUNIA AKHIRAT'. Kenapa lama tak dengar perkataan ni. Ia bergema dalam hati di malam sepi ini.

2. Got forwarded email from a good friend on BENDERA (radical group from Indonesia) who is planning to attack Malaysia. My comment, `A mossad game played by ********, good enough to destroy 2 muslim countries. Cry my beloved saudara seislamku.

3. Today I had a good time with my kids and husband. Good shopping, having dinner together... nice tomyam, burger set, cheese sticks....laughing together before saying goodnight... `Kalilamm ma tasykurun (namun sedikit sekali di kalangan kamu bersyukur). Yeah, admit it.

4. Aku mempunyai sebuah janji yang tak tertunai. Hanya aku, arwah atuk dan Tuhan yang tahu. Al-fatihah untuk atuk, Haji Abu Samah bin Hassan yang sungguh baik hati.

5. Di akhirat nanti, seorang tahfiz, boleh memberi syafaat kepada 10 ahli keluarganya yang confirmed ahli neraka. Kamu mengutuk Sharifah Aini? Anaknya Aliff itu adalah tahfiz. Fikir-fikirkan lah.

6. Life. Death. Hari ini berita dunia mengatakan kau mati sebab mempertahankan agama, tapi rupanya tak masuk syurga. Sebab riak. Hari ini dia pelacur, tapi dia masuk syurga, sebab tangan dia memberi anjing lapar itu makanan dgn ikhlas.

7. Cry me a river.